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Top 4 Reasons Why It's Great to Make Up Your Own Rules by Master Law of Attraction Coach, Jeanna Gabellini
1. You know what’s best for you, not somebody else.
When you are grounded and connected you are definitely your own best authority. Now, if you’re emotionally sideways or in the thick of a heavy issue, don’t make any earth shattering decisions. When you come back to a neutral place you will see more clearly and can take actions that will serve you. You may listen to all the outside advice you’d like, but in the end you have to make the choice that feels best to you.
2. Things can go quicker, easier and less expensive.
When you look at the standard process for something you may accept it for the way that it is. But what’s possible when you create a new standard? If Eva and I had listened to Chicken Soup’s process for book publishing when we first talked to them, we would’ve been knocked off our feet. They said it would take about 1.5 years. We said we knew it could take less. When we were finally given the green light, the process took less than a year. The actual writing took three months. Easier than I’d ever imagined!
Another example is the purchase of my first house. I had no realtor and neither did the seller who was out of communication in rehab. I had no prior experience of the real estate process. I took it on as a learning seminar. When I finally went in to sign the escrow papers they couldn’t believe how I’d done the process. I found what I needed along the way. Lots of people helped me but my newbie spirit looked at everything as possible rather than an obstacle.
3. If your mind can think it, you can create it. Be a pioneer!
If people settled for what was in front of them, nothing new would be created or invented. Sure other people might tell you that you’re nuts when you think outside of their box. So what! They’ll try to convince you that your idea or way of thinking is impossible or illogical. If you have the vision, I promise it’s a worthy cause to pursue.
Do you see something that can be improved upon in the world? Take action! Sure the big dogs might already have a team working on it. But as history will show, newbies can and do prevail. Google took on Yahoo and MSN with some pretty sweet results.
- Current rules and choices may not fit you at all. Create a new choice for yourself.
When option a, b and c don’t feel good you’ve got to create choice d and maybe an e, f and g. The best perspectives happen when you start looking for new combinations of the elements. This point can be useful even with small issues.
Let’s say you want to take some friends out for a special dinner. The two restaurants you had in mind are both booked solid for that evening. Don’t settle for something less.
If you knew you were going to get the ideal food, service and atmosphere how would you handle it? You might get an idea to call back the restaurant you had in mind with some wild pitch for them to let you in. If you were grounded, you possibly might get a yes. You also might talk to some friends to get new ideas. But you definitely wouldn’t let this minor set back throw you off.
The current rules in the U.S. make it difficult to travel in Cuba. Do people find ways of doing it? Yes! And many of them are legal! You can always find a choice that meets all of your criteria. Stay in possibility and you will find your perfect solution.
Remember, when you are truly following your heart you will always make decisions that are in your highest good, as well as others.
Jeanna Gabellini is the Extreme Abundance Coach, author, speaker, trainer, and radio show host who blends strategies and fun with the Law of Attraction. She coaches individuals and teams to go BIG…effortlessly!
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